Being me...
If you make me laugh we’re friends for life haha! Humour, laughing and fun are what bring me the most happiness! Every day has to have authenticity, humour, fun, generosity, inclusivity, love and spirituality! James Corden once told me I was funny (in Port Isaac harbour) and I have dined out on this ever since. Will he remember, hmm! But he knowsss, haha, so I’ll take it.
If you’re real and genuine, friendly and fun, non judgemental and super kind we’re already friends whether we’ve met or not haha! I just love honesty, understanding, big hearts and laughing! No pretending to be anything we are not, and so much supporting of others and genuine gorgeous friendships!
Also love! Love genuinely is my reason to be alive. The more we give to others, in an aligned way that doesn’t deplete us, the happier we are! And the more happiness there is in the world the better choices we all make. The more we appreciate and lift others up the more successful we all become! True happiness always spills out to others, yay!
My absolute life dream is to help everyone I meet see how beyond AMAZING they are and how much the world needs them to be truly alive and true to themselves! Helping people find their genuine life paths and the things that give them energy every day is such an honour!
And...focusing on the present moment more than the past or the future too much! So essential to really feel alive in every day...the right people, places and opportunities come in as soon as we remember this alignment!
Funny things spirit guides do that make me laugh…
Telling me when someone is lying, I don't often tell the person (don't want to be rude ha) but it just clarifies things in my head which is very helpful!
Or alternately when they are thinking something nice they don’t dare say, yay, this one is super cute and helpful, especially with the husband haha!
Telling me when I’ve had too much or too little of something, ha - they are always trying to make me appreciate moderation, I swear it’s in my DNA to be all or nothing, I need the help haha!
The strangest feeling is when they make my body/eyes/hands move without me doing it, makes me look super weird if in public and takes me by surprise! Kinda freaaaky haha but I appreciate it too! It's brought a lot more to my attention that I would normally have missed!
My attire...
If we have a reading together I might be dressed for walking my Ken dog at the beach, I might be dressed for going out for tea later (that’s ‘dinner’ if you’re a Southerner ha!). I 100% believe in making life as easy and fun as possible and dressing exactly how we all want to for the day!
My work day is peppered with running around and playing with Ken to make sure he also has a fun day, plus often a walk and talk with a favourite person in there too (my favourite life activity!)...
Making the most of my days means so much to me after having many years where I couldn't work out how to make my energy levels work for me and thought about not being alive anymore.
If you’re like me and feel the most comfortable in cotton tops and leggings, let us not pretend we are faux adulty adults and that what we wear affects our abilities anything other than positively! Feeling cute and ready for the day is different for everyone, for me it's essential not to stick a barrier in between my real life and my work life so I am ready to go out and live every day!
Best things...
The best thing I’ve learnt from doing this life path is that everyone, no matter their age or situation, is looking for more rest, more fun and more connection! You make others way happier (and with way less effort) by looking after yourself first! It’s taken me YEARS to learn this. Honestly, decades!
Also self care looks different to everybody - for one person it's a bath, another it's a bike ride, for another it's a night out and for another it's silent meditation! There is no one rule fits all. The only rule is 'make sure you are having fun and smiling every single day' in some way and life will happen like magic!
Also everyone is so much more beautiful than they give themselves credit for! I remember an old version of me, I was asked by someone to say 'I love you, you are beautiful' to a mirror...and I cried! For years I couldn't do it. I felt that horrendous about myself. But you only spend time worrying about your outer self too much when you're not following your soul path and also not resting enough! By using your natural skills on yourself as well as helping others you become more radiant naturally!
You are so loveable as you, so unique and so vibrant! You only see yourself through one angle through your eyes or on occasional still photos or videos…you cannot appreciate how beautiful you are in real life with your soul as well as your inside personality and your outer appearance! It’s impossible! It’s true even on your worst days you could still inspire someone else and you don’t even know it yet!
Big loves...
Of course my first loves are the people I am lucky enough to know…my gorgeous boys Ben and Ken, my beautiful friends and family, life chats, walks and talks, dancing and hanging out in our courtyard, doing readings for amazing people, spiritual healings from others, occasional travels and lots of sunshine, music and smiles!
My biggest passion in life aside from these is music! I process every emotion with it. Dancing when getting ready and singing everything always! If I'm late for a night out it's usually because I got distracted getting ready and was having a rave in my bedroom by myself haha!
My teenage bedroom was covered in posters of song lyrics haha and my brain is still obsessed with them years later (walls are white now though, much more calming!). Do I know what I did last Tuesday? Probably not. Do I remember lyrics I love? Hell yes haha.
Music 100% changes my vibration! Like seeing Chase and Status the other day...woah...literally felt like a new level was unlocked in my brain (the same happened when I saw them in 2010...those guys have had magic in their brains for a long time haha!)!
The most amazing feeling is everyone jumping around to music no care in the world all loving the insanely amazing life energy, waaa!
The same can happen just in my house if feeling a little sluggish, I get Lil Wayne 'A Milli' on...or something similar...and I am onnn iiiiit again, ready for the day, haha!
Soul friends...
I know when I've met a soul friend because they are the gorgeous people who bring happiness wherever they go, they always make me feel like the best version of myself! I am always laughing and smiling around them and even if it’s a deep and meaningful conversation it is peppered with smiles and laughs and support from both sides! They make me laugh every day. They are fellow givers! We have an equal give-give relationship and lift each other up every week!
We don’t compete we only compliment and show each other where we are hiding our strengths, we always bring more abundance to each other! I trust them 100% to only speak positively about me and vice versa. They encourage me to learn and grow and become who I am meant be!
Whoever I feel hilarious around is for me, and they are the people I would never turn down a social date, life chat or walk with! They could never make me feel tired, sad or depleted of energy. They don't complain about their life partners or other people because they bring warmth, love and good intentions and they always try to understand the actions of others before coming to any sort of conclusions. They are good people whether someone sees what they do or not!
And then there was me...
Do you really need to see my face? I have had requests to add a pic haha, so this is just so you know who to expect when I call or answer the door ha. I hide this at the bottom of the last page, for those of you who may have made it this far haha!
It's only an excitable phone snap and not a polished pic - I had just finished the best Italian food and wine of my life with Ben, I was sooo content! It felt like this is the energy I needed to share with you, the real more chilled daytime me, not the 'night out' me!
It was in March after I had literally just made a vision board with Venice on it, I wasn't really sure why because I hadn't been there in years, it just spoke to my soul. I had no actual plans to go anywhere, I was in full hermit mode...and then after I made it, some £19.99 flights a £54 hotel room came up literally out of nowhere...and wellll, really it would have been more crazy not to go right?!
For the longest time I had no energy to do what I loved on top of 'traditional work' and I didn't understand it! Now I am actually aligning and living, making my energy work for me and others and it is amazing!
I can't wait to learn more every day by meeting gorgeous souls like you! Tres excited to see your beautiful face verrrry soon and find out all about your life and exciting new energy now too, really can't wait! See you soon, yay! Lots of love, Chloë